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The Essential Guide to Handling a Team Member Leaving Your Project

How to Handle a Team Member Leaving Your Project

You may have to deal with a team member leaving your project at any time. It’s never easy and it’s never pleasant. Although, it can sometimes be a bit of a relief!

There is a lot that can go wrong whenever a team member leaves you. It can easily become a crisis point for our project. But even if it doesn’t, it is often a point of risk. The consequences of a poor handover can be delays, mistakes, and a lot of extra work.

So, how can you handle a team member leaving your project in an elegant and efficient way?

That’s what we are looking at in this feature article.

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Why is the Team Member Leaving your Project?

There are, simply, four primary reasons why a team member may be leaving your project. And I apologise to anyone with a dislike of four-box models. But this situation cries out for one!

Reasons for a Team Member Leaving Your Project

The four cases are:

1. Managed Departure

Your team member is leaving for wholly positive reasons, and you are taking charge of this. This is common towards the end of projects, or at the end of project stages. Either the team member’s role is finished, or there is little opportunity for them to develop further with your project. Sometimes, you reluctantly facilitate a transfer to another project, because you know this is best for their career development Or maybe, it is best for the organization: another project needs them more than yours does.

2. Amicable Departure

This is your team member taking charge of their career. They are leaving your project for positive reasons, to pursue a new opportunity, or as as a move to further their career. This may also be for positive personal reasons, like supporting their partner, or working nearer home. You can expect them to consult you on this, but you’d be a fool to stand in their way. No project manager wants a hostage on their team.

3. Necessary Departure

For whatever reasons, you need to move this team member off your team. It won’t be pleasant, but you need to act. Common reasons include poor performance or an unhelpful attitude. This may also result from inappropriate actions. Clearly, there is the possibility that there will be additional personnel actions running in parallel. We shan’t deal with these in this article, because procedures vary in different organizations, and can differ widely around the globe.

4. Grievance Departure

This is when you have a team member leaving your project for negative reasons of their own. Most often, it is a personality clash or they don’t like the work. Sometimes it is a perceived injustice or a grievance against you. It could also be against another team member. If the grievance or injustice is real, I would hope you have done, and will do, everything you can, to redress the situation. But you may not succeed. Again, we won’t deal with that aspect of the departure.

Finally, it is rare, but team members do leave because they have a fundamental objection to the nature or approach of your project. This is most likely in certain industries, or in consulting projects where the team member has an issue with what their client is doing. Everyone is entitled to make choices that support their values. So try to be respectful of your team member’s moral decision, and convert a grievance departure into an amicable one.

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Why the Reasons Matter

For much of this article, the reasons won’t be material. We’ll focus on practical actions and concerns, which will be common across all cases. Howver, from time to time, we shall look at how the reason for departure affects your choices.

So, in the next four sections, we’ll deal with:

  1. Project Management Considerations for a Team Member Leaving Your Project
  2. Communications Priorities for a Team Member Leaving Your Project
  3. Personnel and Management Issues for a Team Member Leaving Your Project
  4. Administrative Necessities for a Team Member Leaving Your Project

Project Management Considerations for a Team Member Leaving Your Project

You’d expect to think of these first, so let’s dive straight in.

First of all: Don’t panic…

Keep calm and carry on. To a first approximation, this is a better managed equivalent of someone going off sick. So whatever cover arrangements you would make, can keep you going for the first week or so. This will allow you to manage the transition in a tidy and considered way.

Orderly Transition

Your first priority is an orderly transition. After that, you can think about the longer term. This means being sure that nothing falls between the cracks, as your colleague leaves your project. Your two principle concerns are knowledge and delivery.

Knowledge Transfer

How to Handle a Team Member Leaving Your Project
There are two components to this.:

  1. Debriefing
    This is where you spend time finding out what your team member has done, what they have learned, and what relationships they hold. This is an important precursor to your task of reviewing the project plan and risks associated with their leaving.
  2. Knowledge Transfer
    This happens at a more tactical level. It is the series of conversations and note sharing between the team member leaving, and those who are taking on their responsibilities. Each newly allocated team member needs t learn what they can of the practical wisdom your leaving colleague can pass on.

Task Transfer

To ensure that project delivery remains on schedule, you will need to manage the transition of work packages and task lists to others. This is a great opportunity to review your whole team. Ask yourself questions like:

  • How have people developed since you made the current role allocations?
  • What skills and knowledge are team members not using?
  • How is each person performing?
  • Where does the project need a boost?
  • How can you best ensure the future development of each of your team?

Based on your review, develop new role assignments.

Review the Plan

If you have time, the ideal will be to review your plan, before deciding on task transfers, above. But realistically, you may need to make some transfers quickly. This will depend on the reason for the departure, and how much notice you have.

New task allocations can drive different approaches and new schedules and budgets. I’d consider it essential to at least get fresh commitment from work package managers to your plan, if they or any of their teams change as a result of the departures. Better still, they should be the ones to lead on review their components of the plan.

Risk Management

With a team member leaving, you also need to review the risks that creates. But not only that; how does their leaving change the likelihood, impact or proximity of existing threats? Whether or not the team member leaving posed a key person risk, it is likely that the reallocation of their responsibilities will change the risk landscape to a degree.


How does the departure affect your long-term project resourcing plan? You may need to fill gaps in your skills matrix. You have three broad options to consider;

  1. Recruiting a new team member to replace the one who is leaving. They may have the same skills profile or you may opt for something different.
  2. Training existing team members to cover their responsibilities
  3. Taking on a contractor or consultant to fill the gap – either permanently or as a temporary measure

Team Leadership

Do not neglect the impact of the departure on your team. Leavers and joiners will usually upset the smooth running of your team. We explore this in more detail in or article about the Tuckman Group Development model.  There is also a short video summary of the Tuckman model.

You may also need to remotivate the team. What you need to do and how you can best do it depends on the reason for your team member leaving. If the reason was positive, then you should include a public celebration of their contribution, before they leave. For negative cases, you’ll want a more cautious acknowledgement of their role and the impact of their leaving, and a future focus to the meeting.

Communications Priorities for a Team Member Leaving Your Project

As always, communication is a huge part of your role when a team member leaves your project. Let’s consider your three principal constituencies.

Your Sponsor, Board and other Governance Groups

This may be a purely procedural matter, about which they may be, rightly, unconcerned. However, if the reasons are negative, there may be reputational risks, about which they need to be aware. And let’s not forget; a properly engaged sponsor will know your team and take an interest in the as individuals. They will want you to inform them.

Your Team

You should announce the forthcoming change to your team, as soon as appropriate, but not sooner. Rumors get out, so show yourself to be in control. Again, circumstances will dictate what you can share, but ideally let your team know the reasons for the departure.

Stakeholders and Project Partners

If the team changes will affect them, be sure to update your stakeholders and any delivery partners. There is nothing so unsettling for a stakeholder as calling your regular contact to find… they’ve gone.

Personnel and Management Issues for a Team Member Leaving Your Project

Your third consideration is the person who is leaving. You have personnel, managerial and personal responsibilities to them. Let’s see what you should be dealing with.

Last Negotiation

If they are leaving amicably, and you don’t want to lose them, try one last negotiation to keep them. Do this as early as possible, and d it gently. Ask them about their reasons and work together to explore how they can get what they feel they need, and stay in the project. This will often need some creative thinking form you both, and flexibility from you. But if you can find a win-win that allows them to stay – and feel good about it. Then it has to be worth the effort. We have an article about negotiation.


Feedback works two ways, and you have a responsibility to facilitate both.

Giving Feedback

As a project manager, you are in a leadership role. Part of that role is to give people feedback from which they can derive confidence, learn, and develop. We’ll take a close look at giving feedback in a future article.

Getting their Feedback

Sometimes called an exit interview, it is good practice to meet someone who is leaving to hear their frank opinions and leaving thoughts. It is a chance for you to hear the truth. And no matter how uncomfortable, listen carefully, make notes, acknowledge what you’ve learned, and thank them. Do not get yourself into defensive mode. There is nothing in it for them to be part of an argument. And there’s nothing in it for you, either. It will just get in the way of you learning from their honest perceptions. The fundamental question to ask is:

What can you tell me now that you were reluctant to say when you were on the team?’

Saying Goodbye

Make sure you say goodbye properly. As well as the personal component of your goodbye, there are three things to cover:

  1. Recognising their contribution
  2. Thanking them for their work
  3. Celebrating their achievements

Don’t make it worse…

The ideal outcome is to part on positive note, with a value professional relationship intact. If the reasons for the team member leaving are positive, this should be easy. But, if they are not, it can be tempting to indulge your emotional desire for some form of payback. Don’t.

Don’t make it worse: make it better.

As a minimum, stay completely professional and avoid exacerbating the problem. But, if you can, use respect and generosity to try to improve the relationship. This is often possible, because the source of any friction (working together on your project) has been lifted.

Administrative Necessities for a Team Member Leaving Your Project

Okay. Now we’ve reached the bit everyone loves: admin.

Let’s get it over with, because the truth is:

  • nobody loves admin
  • it’s not difficult; it just needs diligence

So, here is my Team Member Leaving your Project Admin Checklist (catchy, huh?)…

  1. Financial
    Are there any internal budgeting or external invoicing issues to close out? This is particularly likely to be the case if your team member is a contractor or consultant to your organization. If that is so, they may also want a reference.
  2. Appointments
    Go through their diary with them to check what project-related appointments they have in their schedule. For each one, either ask them to politely send apologies, or allocate a substitute to replace them.
  3. Contractual matters
    Are there any contracts or agreements that mention them by name, or even their role? If so, study them carefully, and act accordingly.
  4. Time-sheets and other project documentation
    Everyone’s favorites! They won’t love you for pursuing these, but if you don’t, there will probably be someone else in the organization who will pursue you!
  5. Appraisals and Internal HR Tasks
    Within most organizations, there are forms to fill and processes to follow, whenever someone changes role.
  6. Handbacks
    Make sure they hand back anything that does not belong to them, for example:

    • Equipment
    • Security access
    • Data
    • Project Documentation

What is Your Advice?

Have you ever had to manage a team member leaving your project? If so, what advice would you add?

If you haven’t, what questions do you have?

About the Author Mike Clayton

Dr Mike Clayton is one of the most successful and in-demand project management trainers in the UK. He is author of 14 best-selling books, including four about project management. He is also a prolific blogger and contributor to and Project, the journal of the Association for Project Management. Between 1990 and 2002, Mike was a successful project manager, leading large project teams and delivering complex projects. In 2016, Mike launched OnlinePMCourses.

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