Let me tell you about one of the most valuable lessons I learned. It relates to a challenge many Project Managers face… Delegation
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The Delegation Challenge
Here’s the Challenge:
Leading a team of people who neither report to you, nor owe you any allegiance of duty nor loyalty.
For such a team, the skills of project management are all about influence. Listening is an essential component of true influence. But people had already pointed that out to me. Much of the rest, I had to learn for myself.
But I’d like to point you towards one single tip.
If you need someone to do something for you, you need to do three things:
- Identify the right person (I was taught that)
- Brief them well (I was taught that too)
- Look them in the eye and secure their explicit commitment to take on and deliver the task. This, I was not taught.
Four Commitments
Indeed, there are three commitments I will always look for, in this order:
- Confirmation that they understand the task I am requesting of them
- Confirmation that they feel equipped (skills and resources) to take it on, and able to succeed
- This is the big one. Confirmation that they commit to do the task. And, to the best of their ability, within the parameters we have discussed.
In exchange, I will offer one more triple commitment of my own: that I will give them the resources, guidance, and support they need, to do the work I’ve assigned them
And, here’s a bonus
I also learned for myself to treat any response that is not an unambiguous ‘yes’ as if it is a ‘no’.
How to Delegate without Stress

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Recommended Videos to Help with Delegation
Carefully curated video recommendations for you:
- What is Delegation? | Video
- How to Delegate | Video
- Meeting Actions: How to get People to do Them | Video
What Kit does a Project Manager Need?
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